Too CONFUSED, to CHOOSE!

       Too CONFUSED, to CHOOSE!

Making a choice has always been a difficult task for me. Be it carrier, relationships or for that matter a goddamn DRESS. Having too many options and selecting one among them makes me sick. Not just me, but probably most of the people face the same thing as I do or I should say most of the teenagers like me surely do. That’s doesn’t mean it lessens any of my stress but forces me to think why does this problem and confusion arise in the first place.

According to what I have experienced till now, there has always been a conflict between WHAT SHOULD BE DONE and WHAT IS SUPPOSED TO BE DONE. Or to put in simpler words there is a conflict between our heart and brain. Sometimes something out of nowhere catches our attention and we fall for it. It starts dominating our thoughts. Then suddenly an equally good thing comes in picture, probably better and then the first thing which we noticed doesn’t seem as good to us as the second one. But we still feel like clinging on to it. Sometimes it happens that you get a bad experience from a person whatsoever may be the reason but you still you feel like talking to that person. CONFUSION!!! And this makes us go all mad.  Ignoring the positive and negative aspect of every situation, what keeps me awestruck is the fact that unless and until we start realizing the importance of a particular thing or situation it is already too late to make things proper. That’s where the whole “confusion” part starts!                                                       There is always a pressure on us by our family, peers, colleagues and most of the times we are influenced by the decisions they try to imprint on us less realizing what is right for our own good and what not. Listening to people is good but allowing them to make decisions for us is a very  bad option. As I keep thinking about various things happening in my life what I realize is that in the chaos of people giving me advice and trying to do good something for me I have forgotten to listen to my OWNSELF! This surely makes me uncomfortable but somehow also gives me the strength to pick up all the scattered parts and take a stand for myself.

So, next time that you face a confusion and have to choose, don’t forget to listen to your inner voice before listening to anybody else. Because you are the perfect person to choose the right thing for yourself!

                       

     Take Pride In Being A Women

A women plays a crucial role in our society. Her presence and absence both, make a huge difference to all the people around her. Inspite of knowing this some people still tend to disrespect her in every way possible.

In today’s age we talk about feminism and man-women equality, but amongst all this women are still not free or rather safe in our own country. Before talking about female equality and other such related issues and blaming others for not respecting women, we first need to realize what efforts do we take on our part to give a women the space she needs and deserves.

Its not that every guy takes a women for granted but the truth is most of them do. Their “ego’s” are more important to them than anything in this world. Being a man’s slave is all that we are expected. And as self-giving as we women are slowly start forgetting our own value. This is were we start to destroy ourselves! Though the condition of women living in cities has changed, women from remote areas still suffer a lot. Being a women myself I feel, changes can be brought only if we women stay confident about gaining the rights we deserve. We need to be our own saviours. Also, not forgetting that this world without us wouldn’t be the same place as it is today.

As a 19 year old I don’t think my views would make a lot of changes in the thought process of people but I would make sure that atleast people who are around me know what I think and what are my views. That will atleast make some difference to my life. No matter how young or old we are, we should never fail to voice out our opinions. Telling people what we feel would make our identity grow stronger. Also unity will surely bring changes. If we women unite and decide to fight back the n number of sufferings, then nobody can win against us irrespective of the power they have.

So, all the women out there, stay beautiful and always be proud of the fact that you were born as a women and believe that you are among one of those amazing creations of god!

                                            MEMORIES!

Memories are something that make us nostalgic no matter how old we grow. Just a thought and our mind is filled with memories. They are a part of experiences which are more often than not cherished by us. Every experience teaches us something and it helps us to become a better person. Memories not necessarily have to be good or with a happy ending, they can be bad which would haunt us for a while but it will effect us only if we allow it to. It depends on us how we deal with it.

Sometimes when alone, thinking something, an old memory pop’s in our mind and instantly it brings a smile on our face. That itself can be a memory. As said before it depends on how we take it or deal with it. Bad memories bring tears but we remember it because it affects us and choose to remember it. In today’s fast running life we are so busy giving attention to all the materialistic things that we forget to create memories, less realizing that they are the actual treasure which are going to last a lifetime.

In this journey of life, we ourselves decide how to live on our terms and conditions, not allowing others to give a piece of advice which might help us. Before ignoring such things we should sit back and think “what if it might just help us?”  Such thoughts can help us in hell lot of ways.

‘People Always Leave’, this is something that i have heard quite a lot of times. But considering that we should not forget that though certain people leave their memories still are intact with us and that should surely satisfy us. Having said that it does not mean that we should cling on to memories that hurt us, because it somehow doesn't allow us to move on even if we want to. As it’s the every human tendency, we should always keep the good with us and forget the bad. It wont affect others but it will surely gain some peace of mind for ourselves!

So live beautifully, love unconditionally, and make memories on every path, because nothing lasts forever but MEMORIES do!

Not Everything Is Lost.

Sometimes in life everything seems to be out of control. Things don’t go our way and we feel as if the world has decided to get against us. These emotional upheavals are a part of every person’s life. What we fail to understand is that there are many little things in life which  give us happiness but instead we  crib about the things that have gone wrong.

A dance in the rains. Long walks with our loved one’s down the street. A phone call from our best friend. Having our favourite dinner cooked by mum after a tiring day. All these might be events that give us little happiness but these  moments make a huge difference in our difficult times. What we need to learn is to appreciate small gestures of people who make an effort to lift up our mood. It gives us a sense of confidence and later on they prove to be our support system.

Life is a constant struggle, but the one who rises above all difficulties is the real winner. In the process of growing up it is important to keep the child within us alive. It adds fun to our lives and gives us one more reason to LIVE and not SURVIVE. So to sum it up, whatever maybe the situation we should never forget to smile because this world is a happy place to live in.

NOT EVERYTHING IS LOST, BUT A NEW REASON TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING GREATER! :)