Too CONFUSED, to CHOOSE!

       Too CONFUSED, to CHOOSE!

Making a choice has always been a difficult task for me. Be it carrier, relationships or for that matter a goddamn DRESS. Having too many options and selecting one among them makes me sick. Not just me, but probably most of the people face the same thing as I do or I should say most of the teenagers like me surely do. That’s doesn’t mean it lessens any of my stress but forces me to think why does this problem and confusion arise in the first place.

According to what I have experienced till now, there has always been a conflict between WHAT SHOULD BE DONE and WHAT IS SUPPOSED TO BE DONE. Or to put in simpler words there is a conflict between our heart and brain. Sometimes something out of nowhere catches our attention and we fall for it. It starts dominating our thoughts. Then suddenly an equally good thing comes in picture, probably better and then the first thing which we noticed doesn’t seem as good to us as the second one. But we still feel like clinging on to it. Sometimes it happens that you get a bad experience from a person whatsoever may be the reason but you still you feel like talking to that person. CONFUSION!!! And this makes us go all mad.  Ignoring the positive and negative aspect of every situation, what keeps me awestruck is the fact that unless and until we start realizing the importance of a particular thing or situation it is already too late to make things proper. That’s where the whole “confusion” part starts!                                                       There is always a pressure on us by our family, peers, colleagues and most of the times we are influenced by the decisions they try to imprint on us less realizing what is right for our own good and what not. Listening to people is good but allowing them to make decisions for us is a very  bad option. As I keep thinking about various things happening in my life what I realize is that in the chaos of people giving me advice and trying to do good something for me I have forgotten to listen to my OWNSELF! This surely makes me uncomfortable but somehow also gives me the strength to pick up all the scattered parts and take a stand for myself.

So, next time that you face a confusion and have to choose, don’t forget to listen to your inner voice before listening to anybody else. Because you are the perfect person to choose the right thing for yourself!